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Feb 1, 2013

We are "Super women"......NOT!

Last month, I only published one item. There just wasn't time enough in a day to write or I simply did not have the energy to write more. Time has come to write a new article.

VICKY
CHARISSA
My best friend Vicky and I, were always convinced that we belonged to the "fitter" or "better" Ehlers-Danlos patients. We thought that our bodies were able to cope better and do much more than reality has learned us. That we both are worse off has been made clear to us, but more about that later!

The month January was a hectic month for both of us, in our free time as well as in our patient foundation time. The foundation has been inspirational to us, it has given us the feeling that we are can still mean something in this world. We give ourselves with full devotion and are gratefull to have the opportunity to mean something to others and ourselves. We are convinced that things are going in the right direction with the foundation and that together with the whole foundation's team we will start realising our goals.

Last month Vicky and I went to a seminar about eHealth hosted by the EPF (European Patients Forum).

EHealth, in today's technology, is becoming a standard, even if there is still a lot of work to perfect it. It has become apparent that patients will need to play more and more an active role in eHealth. Every patients has the right to know what is written in their medical reports, even the minute details. Even today, this right is not always exercised properly en should a patient get their hands on a report, it will dazzle the patient with all the medical mumble jumble.

The seminar was also more than just eHealth, "Patient Empowerment" is just another example of important topics that was discussed.

Patient Empowerment is a broad concept. Experience through workshops and discussions has taught us that in general the priority is mainly place on our rights. We have the right to read and look into our files, the right for the correct information, the right over our own bodies. We are not saying that it is not like that, but we have also duties: Patient Empowerment also means that we have the duty to learn how to take care of ourselves, taking care in the broader sense, that is. Coming up for our rights is one thing, but performing and doing things in the right and correct manner is another. Being assertive the right way!

We found it an educational seminar, good speakers, workshops and discussion with people from all corners of Europe. Everything was organized very well by EPF, beautiful hotel room, fine food, etc. Vicky and I have enjoyed ourselves, but mostly we learned a lot of new things and were able to broaden our networks.

Yesterday, we had an appointment at University Hospital Ghent for research and testing to show relationship of a dysfunctional autonomic nervous system and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome type III. With three we were yesterday. Karen, Vicky and myself. We had several tests to do ... Next week we will go back to repeat everything again and then Kelly will be present as well. We are not going to disclose much of our research results, as we do not want to influence other patients that still have to undergo testing. We also want to give Inge the opportunity to present the results as part of her doctorate. At the end of the studies, we will disclose more.

The experience has again been extremely confrontational and we were forced to face the reality on how debilitating EDS could be. In our minds, we still are Super Women, but yesterday made us realise we are NOT!